• Activate your caller ID blocking feature to keep your number private if you call someone.
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• Don't call collect! Your number will show up on their phone bill.
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• If you want the other person to be able to contact you, get a pager or use a personal cellphone / mobile number - not one that they might call you in the office on.
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• Use a payphone. It may be a hassle, but well worth it!

By Email

• Don't reveal your office or personal email address - use the address for your gay dating identity only.
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• Yahoo Mail and HotMail both have a facility to redirect mail from their system to another email address. This enables you to use a Yahoo/HotMail address for your dating activities but still receive the emails in your usual email inbox, but without the sender being aware of this - provided you only reply from your Yahoo/Hotmail address